in life, more often than not, we regret the things that we did. it usually occurs after we've done it and it's already too late to change it. some people do it on their impulse, following their hearts more than their minds. i'm not saying that it's a bad thing to follow what ur heart says. but sometimes, we need to use our minds to differentiate the right from the wrong too. use the logic of mankind, rather than the drive of emotions.

sadly i am human too. i've done things that i'm not proud of, and i know nothing i'll do can change it. nor do i want to change it, because it is where i went wrong that taught me to be a better person, not to repeat the same mistake again. during a crisis, i'm sure most of u people out there tend to be impulsive at times, and afterwards u regret what u had said or done. when u look back, u find urself wondering: what if i had taken a step back, and think of what i really wanna do? then u'll probably spend the rest of the day coming out with more 'what if's, and never find out the answers. this dilemma has been around since god knows when, and i think nothing can ever change it.

people might say, what if u only have ONE nanosecond to decide what to do, in a matter of life and death? yes, that is where u can't find or spend any time to pause and think.

unfortunately, that's life. u can't have everything the way u want it. u dun live to please people. u dun owe everyone a living. live for urself. try to think of the pros and cons, before u do anything at all. people, get rid of the 'what if's in ur life once and for all.